May 12, 2013

Dear James

     On Mother’s Day I could write about the day I found out I was pregnant, the first time I felt your baby feet moving inside me or the moment when we finally looked in each other’s eyes that November morning.  I could marvel on about those cuddly newborn days when I was a brand new mother.


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     Honestly though, baby James, those sentimental milestones were marred with a little bit of fear, a lot of morning sickness, then a whooole lot of exhaustion followed by a little bit of postpartum depression.  They weren’t quite what I expected.  Those moments I thought would magically transform me into a mama felt robbed.

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     Oh baby, you were so hard.  We had hurdles.  While trying to learn each other we were bombarded with nursing problems.  Your daddy & I were constantly sleuthing, trying so hard to understand why you seemed so fussy.  You boycotted sleep.  I cried, a lot.

     But now, I’m not feeling not so naive.  I know those were just the beginning of bumps in the road and tears.  In fact, I’m pretty sure that is what motherhood is made off…hurdles, bumps, tears & being driven to your knees over and over knowing you can’t do it alone.

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     During one of those seemingly harrowing trials, I cried to mom in anger, shame & defeat-

“Babies just show you how weak you really are!!”

     But in her wisdom she assured me,

“No, babies show you how strong you actually are”

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     James Patrick, this is so true.  You’ve completely, totally humbled me.  Shown me that I am always a daughter of God first, a mother second.  That I can’t do it alone.  In this humility, I’ve found so much strength.


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I can go on 3 hours of sleep.  I run a hot shower in the middle of the night to steam a very stuffy baby.  I can entertain the two of us while Daddy works his 24s.  I can survive screaming, fussy days and still be head over heels in love with you.  I can give up my favorite in the world (dairy) just to see you feeling better.  I know these little things are just the tip of the iceberg, too.  You have so much more to teach me.  I have so much more humility and strength to gain. You are just perfect for me.


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     I love you, my baby JP.  You have stretched me, you have brought my faith to life, you have shown me how to truly serve & be selfless.


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Thank you

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